What Really Makes You Tick? 10 Questions You Should Ask Yourself: A Preparation To Self-Improvement
What Really Makes You Tick?
10 Questions You Should Ask Yourself: A Preparation To Self-Improvement
Self-improvement: improvement of one's condition through one's own efforts. I often see myself as somewhat content with my life the way things are, but of course it's hard to think of anything else when there are real issues to be discussed. Still I aspire for something deeper and more meaningful. So we're all pelted with problems. Honestly it shouldn't even bother or even hinder us from becoming all we ought to be. Aspirations as kids should continue to live within us, even though it would be short-lived or as long as we could hold on to the dream. They say you can't teach an old dog new tricks… or can they?
- What do I
really want?
The question of the ages. So many things you
want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day.
Finding something that you are good at can help realize that small step towards
improvement. Diligence is the key to know that it is worth it.
- Should I
really change?
Today's generation has taken another level of
redefining 'self', or at least that's what the kids are saying. There are far
worse things that they could have had than acne or maybe even promiscuity. So
how does that fit into your lifestyle? If history has taught us one thing, it's
the life that we have gone through. Try to see if partying Seventies style
wouldn't appeal to the younger generation, but dancing is part of partying.
Watch them applaud after showing them how to really dance rather than break their
bones in break-dancing.
- What's the
bright side in all of this?
With so much happening around us there seems
to be no room for even considering that light at the end of the tunnel. We can
still see it as something positive without undergoing so much scrutiny. And if
it's a train at the end of the tunnel, take it for a ride and see what makes
the world go round!
- Am I
comfortable with what I'm doing?
There's always the easy way and the right way
when it comes to deciding what goes with which shoes, or purse, shirt and
whatnot. It doesn't take a genius to see yourself as someone unique, or else
we'll all be equally the same in everything we do. Variety brings in very
interesting and exciting questions to be experimented.
- Have I done
enough for myself?
Have you, or is there something more you want
to do? Discontent in every aspect can be dangerous in large doses, but in small
amounts you'll be able to see and do stuff you could never imagine doing.
- Am I happy
at where I am today?
It's an unfair question so let it be an
answer! You love being a good and loving mom or dad to your kids, then take it
up a notch! Your kids will love you forever. The same goes with everyday life!
Do you earn enough money? Hate your job? Wanna start your own business?
- Am I
appealing to the opposite sex?
So maybe I don't have an answer to that, but
that doesn't mean I can't try it, though. Whether you shape-up, change the way
you wear your clothes or hair, or even your attitude towards people, you should
always remember it will always be for your own benefit.
- How much
could I have?
I suppose in this case there is no such thing
as having things too much or too little, but it's more on how badly you really
need it. I'd like to have lots of money, no denying that, but the question is
how much are you willing to work for it?
- What
motivates me?
What motivates you? It's an answer you have to
find out for yourself. There are so many things that can make everyone happy,
but to choose one of the may be the hardest part. It's not like you can't have
one serving of your favorite food in a buffet and that's it. Just try it piece
by piece.
- What Really
Makes You Tick?
So? What really makes you tick? You can be
just about anything you always wanted to be, but to realize that attaining
something that may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even
start that journey. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the
physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it's something that
you really want.
So there we have it. 10 simple questions to
ask yourself. Do you want to improve? I do not have all the answers for you.
You can only answer for yourself.
Someone once asked me :’Why are you working so
damn hard? Would earning more money make you happy?’
To that I answered :’I am not working hard at
all. Not as hard as I should, but u enjoyed it. I enjoy the process and the
rewards I get. Earning more money does make me happier. It pays for the bills,
the nice ring I could get my wife and the vacation I deserve.’
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